Salaam. I don’t know where to type my question …but my question is after my nikah i didn’t had intercourse with my spouse..so i have cometo know that my valimah is haraam.
cud u plzz explain me is it right ..and to overcome this sin what i have to do…plzzz moulana i am waiting for ur response……plzz .plzzz.plzzz
The wisdom behind Walimah is expressing gratitude to Allaah, extending happiness amongst relatives, friends and the poor through a wedding feast and making the formal announcement of the Nikaah in the community.
Walimah is neither Farz nor Wajib. It is Sunnah for the groom to invite relatives, friends and the poor for feast within the next two days after he has spent sometimes with the bride in privacy. The wedding feast organized after two days would not be termed as Walimah. It would be normal a feast according to the Hanfi School of thought.
As regard to your case, if Walimah was performed within the next two days after spending few times with your wife in privacy then the wedding feast would be regard as Walimah. Otherwise, it would be a normal feast and not the Walimah. However, it won’t be termed as Haraam in any case, if moderation is observed in holding it.