i have helped my family since i had married after my married my father passed awawy after 1 year i have 6 sisters and 4 brothers8 years ago i bought house for my self and childre but igave to my family to lieve in that house but last year my own mum sold that house and said i didt bought this house now my all family is enemy what shal i do no?when i bought that house my husban was not know now he knows everything he told me i dont want to involved pls can you give advice what shal i do just give advice jazakallah kher.some1 told me to read allthe time this words everthing should be ok (BISMILAH HERRAHMANIRAHEEM TAWAKALTO ALALAHI LAHOLA WALA KOWATA ELABILA HILALUOLAZEEM)
Dear Sister in Islam, approach the local Mufti or an Alim and seek his guidance in this regard.
asalamalaikum,mere kokhwab main sanp dekhety hai,main ne sari zindagi apneghar walo kihelp kari wo to main nahi kehti mager main ne aik ghar khareeda tha apne husband or os ki family ko b nahi bataya tha mager after 8 saal k bad meri apni maa ne wo ghar bech k kha gai or mere sare behn bhai mere se laraee jhagre kar rahey hai ,ab ye bat mere husband ko b pata hai or os ki behan ko b mere halaat b ab bohot kharab hai main kia karo kia koi maa b asa kar sakti hai apni beti k sath please app mere ko jawab zaror dena main ne apni maa se bohot mon mari b ki mager on lgo ne ab ghar bech diya hai mainne wo ghar apni maa k naam pe liya tha kio k main bahr mulak main hoon on logo ne kaha tha k mere naam pe nahi hos sakta main ab bas baddowa deti hon onlogo ko or to kouch nahi kar sakti ager main kaho k quran pe hat rakh k sach bolo to wo quran pe hat rakhney ko nai taya, meri madad karo pls main kia karo mere samney meri maa hai or koi nahi jis ne mere sath dhoka kia hai advice dena pls mere or hamarey liye or bacho k liye khas tor pe dowa karwan pls
Dear Sister in Islaam, may Allaah help you out of the situation you are in! It is the religious and moral responsibility of children to help and assist the parents specially when they are in need. You will be blessed in this world and get reward in the hereafter for whatever favour you have done to your mother and family. But all these good deeds will go in vain if you remind them of these favour and cause harm to them. Allaah says, “O you who believe! Do not render in vain your Sadaqah by reminders of your generosity or by injury…” (Suratul-Baqarah 2:264)
Reminding people of favour has been prohibited in several Ahadith. Imam Muslim recorded on the authority of Abu Zar that the Nabee of Allaahﷺ is reported to have said, “Three persons whom Allah shall neither speak to on the Day of Resurrection nor look at nor purify, and they shall receive a painful torment: he who reminds of what he gives away, he who lengthens his clothes below the ankles and he who swears an oath while lying, to sell his merchandise”.
Islaam asks children to show respect to parents, serve and support them financially whenever they are in need of it, even if they are non-Muslims. Allaah says, ““But if they strive with you to make you ascribe unto Me as partner that of which you have no knowledge, then obey them not. Consort with them in the world kindly, and follow the path of him who repented to Me. Then to Me will be your return, and I shall tell you what you used to do”. (Suratu Luqmaan: 31/15)
Therefore, face the situation with patience, Allaah will bless you with better alternative in this world and great reward in the life hereafter. Do not remind your mother and family of the favour you have done to them nor cause any harm to them verbally or physically and maintain the bond of kinship.