Sexual relationship between the spouses

Aslam o Alikum
Sir i need to know that, after marriage how many times i can do intercourse with my wife and how many times i put mani into the private part of my wife so that will not effect the child.how many months or days we can utilze for intercourse?is there any period to do intercourse?please clarify in detail.please email me urgently.thanks and regrds.
باسمه تعالى
حامداومصليا
Though there is no specific period for having intercourse, both the party should consider the right and desire of other so that each can prevent him/herself from wrong doing. Therefore, it is disliked to not have intercourse with one’s wife for more than four months without any valid reason. However, enjoy with what Allaah has made lawful for you considering the health condition.
والله اعلم بالصواب

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  1. Assalamu alaykum

    I wanted to know the tariqah of ghusul after sex, including the dua
    Wa alaykumus Salaam
    The emthod of ghusl is sumple:-
    1. wash the satr(private parts and surrounding area between navel and knee) and also all najaaasat that is on body.
    2. make a complete wudhu.
    3. Pour water over the head and centre of body
    4. pour water over the right shoulder.
    5. pour weater over left shoulder.
    6 wipe over the whole body with wet hands.
    The intention should be to purify oneself from the major impurity.

  2. assalam walekum ,

    sir first time wife ke sath mubashrat karne ke liye kon si dua padi jati hai\

    thanks and regard,
    abdul salam
    Wa alaykumus salaam
    Hat sar pe rakh kar yeh duaa parhe
    ALLAHUMMA INNI ASALUKA KHAIRAHAA WA KHAIRA MAA FEEHAA WA A’OOTHU BIKA MIN SHAR RIHAA WA SHAR RI MAA FIHAA. PHIR YEH DUAA PARHE
    ALLAHUMMA JANNIBNA WA JANNIBISH SHAITANA MAA RAZAQTANAA.

  3. ASSALAMOALAYKUM.
    PLease give guide me for the duwa to be recited at the time of first marriage consummation(pahli mubashrat). Please let me know do I need to put my hand on my forehead or my wife’s forehead.

    Jazakallah….!
    Wa alaykumus Salaam
    The du’aa at the time of first meeting your wife is as follows:-
    Place your hand on her forehead and read and read the following
    ALLAHUMMA INNI AS A LUKA KAHIRAHAA WA KHAIRA MAA FEEHAA WA A OOTHU MIN SHAR RIHAA WA SHAR RI MAA FEEHAA.
    Thereafter at the time of consummation read the following
    ALLAHUUMMA JAN NIBNA WA JANNIBISH SHAYTAANA MAA RAZAQTANAAA.

  4. Assalamoalaykum,
    Jazakallah…!
    Thanks for your ansswer with duwa.
    However I have also requested for some more information regarding married life, in the above two columns as:

    “” would like to know of a suitable book on married life, written by some shaikh in tariqat.
    I would request you to illuminate clearly if it is permissible for a husband to consume his wife’s milk. Is there any prohibition in shariyat? What about the prospect of a husband if he repaetedly consumes his wife’s milk..? I request for a clear and final suggestion, I many people provide incomplete statements however, none has given me a satisfactiry help and knowledge.””
    Wa alaykumus Salaam
    I advise you to open this link a read books tht are there, especially the good on the rights of husband and wife. Also if you know how to read urdu there is a book on marriage ettiquettes.Click Here
    2. As for the drinking of one’s wife’s breast milk it is makruh and should not be done. If done by mistake then there is no problem but if done purposely then makruh.

  5. asalam o alaikum. agar koi namaz parhne wala shaks apne aisay dosto k saath uthta bethta khata peeta hai jo namaz nahi parhte par hain muslim to kya un k saath nahi ghoomna chaheay. jb aik admi hazrat ALI R.A k pas aya us n kaha k maine manat mani thy agar mujhe beta hoga to kuttay k saath roti khaonga to hazrat ALI R.A ne farmaya us shaks k sath roti khao jis ne 3 din se namaz na parhi ho. hadith k mutabik jo shaks susti ki waja se 3 jummay chohrta hai ALLAH AZWAJAL us k dil par mohar laga deta hai. plz mujhe iska jawab zaroor dejeaga. thanks
    Wa alaykumus Salaam
    Khud sawaal bhi kar rahe ho aur jawab dene ki khoshish bhi!!! waah!!
    Bas be namazi shariat men faasiq maanaa jaataa he. Un ke saath bethne se aamaal par asar parta he aur issi wajah se faasiq se ta alluq rakhne se mana he.Yaad rakhiye faasiq islam se khaarij nahin. Unke saath bethna jaaiz he lekin issi niyyat se ke unko namazi banaale.

  6. ASLKM,
    Mufti sahab I have been waiting for your kind favour, for the above question.

    1. Can we delay pregnency, with any of shariyat compliant prevention?

    2. Mufti sahab please tell me that is there any affect on the health of a wife we if keep on making sex after pregnency…..? Can we enjoy our conjugal life during pregnency also…?

    PLease answer me soon.

    I shall be highly greatful to you.
    Wa alaykumus Salaam
    Delaying of pregnancy is only under for health reasons and when a woman is breastfeeding. The only other way is called 3azl. This is translated as coitus interruptus.
    Conjugal relationship with wife after pregnancy is totally permissible. Care should be exertedtowards the end.

  7. Asalmualukum,

    1. Kya mard aur aurat hand sex ek dusere ko kar sakte he?
    2. Kya mard aurat ek dusreko oral sex kar sakte he?
    3. Shariyat me kin chizo ki izazat he?
    Detail me batana please
    Jajakallah
    Wa alaykumus Salaam
    Oral sex haraam, baaqi jaaiz he lekin shart he ke kuffar ke ghande aadaton se paak ho.

    1. Aslamualykum,

      Kay mard aurat ek dusre ke saath hand sex kar sekte he?
      WA ALAYKUMUS SALAAM
      JAAIZ TU HE LEKIN TASHABBUH BIL KUFFAR (KAAFIRON KI AADATEN ) KI WAJAH SE MAKRUH HE.

  8. salam..mufti sahab ..can u tell me sharae tareeqa of ghusal after sex..i m in acold country..cant wash my hands evry 2nd day bc the water here is harmful..is it necessary for a women to wash her hairs complete aftr having sex..or she can do masah only?plz reply me thanx..jazakALLAH
    Wa alaykumus salaam
    the whole body has to be drenched in water and gargling of the mouth and placing water in the nostrils are necessary in ghusl. If not done then aperson will be regarded as being unclean and none of his/her prayers will be accepted.
    Also if the water harms then buy some body cream to protect your skin. Buy a hair dryer to make it easdy to dry your hair.

  9. Assalamo alacum

    Sir agr husband or wife main oral sex ho jay to kya zaza ha, hum dono se oral sex ho gaya ha lakin koi pani mun main nahi gaya.

    or islamic mushwaa day k main sexually boht kamzor ho shayd is waja se oral sex ho jata ha main apni sexual kami ko kis tarh pura kar sakta ho.
    Wa alaykumus Salaam
    Oral Sex insaani fitrat se baahir he.Yaad rakhiye ke kisi cheez ko adat ke khilaaf istimaal karna zulm kahlaataa hen. Sazaa koi muqarrar nahin lekin ghunnaah tu he.
    Oral sex karne se mardaanaa taaqat men kamzoori aajaati he. ALLAH se toubah maangle. Saaf sutra zindagi ikhtiyaar kare.

  10. I have been married to my husband for 10 years, but somehow it was not a willful marriage from my side, my parents forced me to marry this man, I had a lot of desire for romance and sex but my husband could not fulfill my needs, he is very cold when it comes to sex. I tried my best to adjust but now i am scared to go unlawful and outside to fulfill my desires of love and sex. Kindly tell me some very helpful dua that can suppress my sex desire in my body or increase the sex desire in my husband, if I am successful at suppressing my needs, I will win and will be prevented from shaytan. I will be very grateful to you .
    ASSALAAMU ALAYKUM!!!
    Try fasting on Mondays and thursdays. It will definitely help to control your strong desires.
    Also try and feed your husband with stimulants toenhance his sexual drive so that he may fill your desire.

  11. salam….
    i want to know the dua to be read by women during ghusl after sexual intercourse.can you please temm me the dua
    Waalaykumus Salaam
    I am not sure of what you mean by du’a during Ghusal. DAre you referring to intention or any other du’aa?

  12. i have gone through lots of sites,for details on oral sex ,some says it is permitted and other says not permitted,please let me know if is is permitted or not.
    ASSALAAMU ALAYKUM!!!!!!!!!
    ORAL SEX IS FILTHY, DESPICABLE AND TOTALLY BARBARIC AND THERFORE BOT PERMISSIBLE.pOLLUTION OF THE TONGUE BY FILTHY NAJASAT LIKE MAZI AND MANI IS SOMETHING UNACCEPTED IN ISLAAM.

  13. i’ve been marid since 7 years n we rarely had sex. in a year on ly once we made love. can u tell me if i’m still in nikah wiz him or nt
    ASSALAAMU ALAYKUM!!! (ISLAMI WTTIQUES)
    yES YOU ARE STILL IN HIS NIKAH TILL TALAAQ TAKES PLACE.

  14. SALAM. I GOT MARRIED 4MONTHS AGO. I AM WEEK IN SEX AND MY SPERMS COME OUT EARLY AND I CANNOT MAKE MY WIFE HAPPY.IS THERE ANY DUA IN ISLAM BY WHICH I CAN GROW MY STAMINA.
    WA ALAYKUMUS sALAAM
    Go an buy some sexual stimulants.

  15. Aslaamwuilaikuim,

    Is it haram for oral sex in Islam? because i was in a marriage 3 years ago that only lasted a month where my ex-wife demanded to have oral sex and said it is ja-yiz and that all her friends whom had recently gotten married do it with their husbands i refused because 1. afraid of ALLAH 2. believe that handicap children are born due this behavior 3. would not have been able to kiss her.

    please tell me i am not crazy, be a brave MUFTI and answer this question, it seems to be a reality now with many couples. please provide an answer with backing of the Qur’an and if possible the haddees, this wordpress is good you are doing a great job helping Muslims find answers.

    shukrun
    Wa alaykum us Salaam
    Oral sex is dispicable, disgusting and filthy.
    it is known to cause oral cancer. ALLAH save us from such filth.
    we have been warned not to approach our wives in haidh because of it being filth and harmful. Is oral sex not in the same category?

  16. Salam,
    I wanna know if your wife is doing breast feeding to your child and during sex if by chance her milk drop into your mouth what will you do with that milk( your wife), will you swallow it or just spit out.

    Please explain in accordance with Quran and Sunnah.
    Wa alaykumus salaam
    Do you really think that you will find such issues mentioned in qur’aan and sunnah, i.e. hadeeth?

    1. و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله و بركاته
      Jaaiz nahin. Ager howa he tu ALLAH se toubah maangle aur aainda na karne ka pakka irada kare.

      1. و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله و بركاته
        Jihaan karsakte basara ke dukhaan aage ke raste men Ho.

  17. a.o.a mufti sahab mera sawal hai mra nikkah 12 rabial awal k din hua kia is din jaiz hai?aur mra nikkah hua hai rukhsati nahi hui woh aik ya derh saal baad hogi kia hum husband wife aaps mein baith kar baat kar sakty hain ?kia rukhsati k baad kitny arsy baad milen?

    1. Wa 3alikom alsalam
      Oes din ya kisi aur din men nikah karna kiya haraj he? Bill jaaiz he.
      2. Nikaah huwa tu app dono miya biwi. Baat karna milna saith baithkar baat karna bilkul jaaiz.

  18. Assalamuwalaikum,
    Kya naukri pane ne liye gush/bribe dena Islam me jaeej hay. Example- 1 lakh ka bribe denepar mujhe 50000 salary wali naukri mil jaegi.

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